Wednesday, 12 March 2008

Love on the Rocks

Unfortunately not all marriages work out. Some marriages ended in divorce. There are many reasons why marriages failed - incompatibility, clash of personalities, differences of opinion, unrealistic expectations, irreconcilable differences, jealously, intolerable behaviour, extra-marital affairs … the list goes on.

Some marriages die a natural death. The passion died. Both parties begin to feel bored with each other and with the relationship. They feel the fun going out of life. They feel the need for change and to move on.

Whatever reasons people may have in wanting to end their marriage, when the time comes to go their different ways, couples should part amicably. Some couples become bitter with each other. This need not be so. The ending of a relationship could mean that you were not meant for each other, and that the time has come to move on.

There is no point in continuing a loveless marriage, and people should not stay in a marriage that is physically or mentally abusive. Better to get a divorce and move on with their life. The prospect of a future on your own might seem gloomy and frightening, but forcing yourself to stay married - there is no future at all.

Besides, who knows, maybe someone more worthy of you is waiting round the corner for you.

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When it is time to part, then it is time to part. There should be no regrets. The beauty of marriage is like the fleeting perfection of a snowflake. - Deng Ming-Dao

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