Good relationships make people happy, and
happy people enjoy more and better relationships than unhappy people. Conflicts
in relationships – having an annoying office mate or roommate, or having
chronic conflict with your spouse – is one of the surest ways to reduce your
happiness. You never adapt to interpersonal conflict; it damages every day,
even days when you don't see the other person but ruminate about the conflict
nonetheless. - Johathan Haidt
Human nature, at its best, had always been based on
a deep heroic restlessness, on wanting something – something else,
something more, whether it be true love or a glimpse just beyond
the horizon. It was the promise of happiness, not the attainment of it, that
had driven the entire engine, the folly and glory of who we are. - Will Ferguson
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