When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching
for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a
relationship, we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and
take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on – serial polygamy –
until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we,
each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it
for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to
program for eventual failure every relationship we enter. - Tom Robbins
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